The exact convorsation… ” do you really like *Adam?” (Mother.)
“Yes Very Much” I said. (corinne)
“Are you and dad ever going to like him?” (C.)
“No i don’t think we ever will” (M.)
“Why not?” (C.)
“Well he isn’t ever going to be anything. he is never going to be able to give you what you want or anything you need. He is never going to be a plastic surgeon. and isn’t in the same social class as we are. he doesn’t fit in with our family are your type of people. he is never going to be anything.” (M.)
now i wish i had a recorder for that. because never in my life besides on tv or in the movies did i ever think anyone could be that cruel and mean hearted. How can anybody ever think that those things would ever be ok to say. how can anyone say that to a person and honestly think it is alright.
It really aggravates me that someone can say these things about a person they have never gotten to know or had an actual conversation with. I now see that people see are as mean hearted as they sometimes see. and i cant put anything past people these days.
Some people care more about what other people think and how they are perceived or their reputation more than what is really going on and how good people really are despite other peoples views on them.
I am just happy that i do not have the same views on people and that i can treat people how i would want to be treated. because i am sure no one would want to be treated or have things said about them in that way. it is horrible to me that people would be this cold hearted and i am glad that I do not take after my mother in this sense.
i am on the edge of tears thinking anyone could ever be this way and don’t see how cruel they are really being. how they think it is perfectly okay to act this way and say these things.
ecspecally about the guy that i love and they don’t even give it a chance to see how great they really are. you would think a mother would want her daughter to be happy and that is all that really matters. but i guess some people don’t want that and they don’t care how much a person makes me happy as long as they don’t approve because he “isnt in our social class”
its sad that people are really like this and nothing i say or do can change their minds i guess they are just ignorant, cold hearted and close minded.
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